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The Evolution Of Normal (Finally!)

So let’s look at this word “normal.” It’s a pretty interesting word! We use it in SO many ways, with multiple layers of connotations that have nothing to do with its original meaning. We use it to mean “healthy,” as in, “Your blood tests came out normal.” We use it to mean “common” or “expected,” as in “It’s normal to feel weak and tired after a long bout with the flu.” We use it to mean “socially acceptable,” or at least “socially predictable,” as in “Why can’t you just listen to pop music like a normal teenager?” (Which was my mom’s response to the constant strains of Mozart and Duke Ellington emerging loudly from my room during my 80‘s teenhood. Heh.) So what is the original meaning of the word, the one from which all of those others somehow evolved and diverged? I could half-jokingly say that the answer is written in the stars. Fellow astronomy buffs and lovers of Latin will know what I’m talking about: there’s a small constellation up there that everyone ignores, becaus...

Bloggus Interruptus, or An Old Friend

So here I am again at the far edge of a several-weeks' break in posting... I hate it when that happens, but occasionally life just gets very, very full of Other Things! I haven't finished my ongoing topic from late April yet, but today's post will be a short side-trip, because I want to talk about something that feels very current and present to me right now. Today I am thinking a lot about an old friend I lost touch with some years back. I'll call her Sue... and if she ever reads this, she'll know why. Our losing touch wasn't accidental. I stepped back from the friendship intentionally, in order to let her go her chosen way unimpeded. I tentatively and temporarily got back in touch with her several years ago just to see how she was doing, and it seemed that she had succeeded in her goal. But I can't help wondering if she's really happy. I say "she" out of respect to the inner self she hesitantly chose to let me see, which did not match...